"AHA" Moment - Finding confidence

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by abstractcapital, Apr 6, 2023.

How long did it take you to find consistency?

  1. 1-2 years

    2 vote(s)
    14.3%
  2. 3-4 years

    1 vote(s)
    7.1%
  3. 5-6 years

    11 vote(s)
    78.6%
  1. Bloody hell. My last trade was a couple of months ago
     
    #51     Apr 14, 2023
  2. deaddog

    deaddog

    I have often suggested that you study why traders fail and then don't do that stuff.
     
    #52     Apr 14, 2023
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  3. Sekiyo

    Sekiyo


    It’s simply easier to fail over time.
    Especially when downside is unlimited.
    It takes one instance of weakness to blowup.

    Traders have no discipline,
    They’re quick to give up.
    It’s mental breakdown.

    They make one mistake,
    Then they compound them.

    They circle around pain points,
    Distract themselves from real problems.

    They spend time charting,
    They listen to podcasts,
    They read books …
    The easy stuffs.

    They tell you how to behave,
    But they won’t follow their rules.

    Don’t give up, Don’t be weak.
    Stay in control and Follow the plan.
    Tomorrow is another day (Only if you cut that loss).

    Take a break.
     
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    #53     Apr 14, 2023
  4. deaddog

    deaddog

    Right and when you ask them the plan it's to make a lot of money in a short time with as little effort as possible.
     
    #54     Apr 14, 2023
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  5. schizo

    schizo

    Is this supposed to be a poem? Nothing rhymes, dude. :D
     
    #55     Apr 15, 2023
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  6. alistera

    alistera

    Why does anyone lose in life "double-bind" - the world works on double-binding everyone from your family to your girlfriend to your job, the financial markets are the leading experts, everything else is an interpretation how to break it, that is what a strategy is, that is what an edge is.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_bind

    The only win is to not engage with it, how do you do that, well if it was easy we wouldn't have this.
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    #56     Apr 15, 2023
  7. virtusa

    virtusa

    When I mean knowledge, it covers everything that is knowledge (everything you know), and also the needed logical thinking to lead to a good solution.

    For example:
    • know when to enter/exit and why
    • mental discipline is important, so DO IT (mental discipline is part of the knowledge because you KNOW that you need mental discipline)
    • execute your knowledge, don't just state what you should do but DO IT
    • etc...
    Knowledge includes everything you know. No matter whether you execute this knowledge fully or not. So everything that has impact on your trading is part of knowledge (at least if you know the problem and the solution).

    Any one of the things on your list that can derail a trading day should be analyzed and solved. Executing everything is part of the knowledge as you know that not doing it will harm your results.
     
    #57     Apr 15, 2023
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  8. This is very good. And, I might add going on "Tilt" for the rest of the day. Which leads into your 3rd line. "It takes one instance of weakness to blowup"
     
    #58     Apr 15, 2023
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  9. Overnight

    Overnight

    You have no idea what poetry is if you think all poetry must rhyme.

    Here's two examples. One read, one heard...
    ----------------------

    "The Death Of Goddesses

    It used to be hard
    for women,
    snowed in their white lives,
    white lies,
    to write books
    with that fine frenzy
    which commends genius
    to posterity,
    yet estranges it
    from its closest
    friends.

    Women were friends to all,
    & being too friendly
    they could not command
    the unfriendly prerogatives
    of genius,
    though some were
    geniuses still,
    destroying
    only themselves
    with the torment
    of the unfriendly ghost
    trapped in a friendly
    form.

    Oh the women who died
    dissembling friendship
    for the world!
    Oh the women who turned
    the dagger inward
    when it wished
    to go out,
    who impaled themselves
    on Womanhood itself!

    No vampire
    could be
    as greedy for blood,
    no father or husband
    as bullying.
    A woman punishing herself
    with her own pain
    is a fierce opponent indeed.

    It is self against self,
    dagger to dagger,
    blood of her blood,
    blood of her daughter,
    blood of her mother,
    her menses, her moon,
    all pooled together,
    one crimson sea.

    It is the awful auto da fé,
    the sublime seppuku,
    Sante Sebastiana
    as archer
    & victim too.

    The arrow flies from her bow.
    She runs, fleet as Diana,
    & stops it
    with her breast.

    Enough!
    cried the Women-Who-Cared.
    Henceforth we will turn
    our anger where it belongs.
    We will banish the whitest lies.
    We will speak the black truth as it is.
    Our father- we spit back their sperm.
    Our husbands- we spit back their names.
    Our brothers- we suck back our love.

    The self-righteous inherit the earth,
    & anger speaks louder that love.
    Love is a softness
    the weak cannot afford,
    & sex a Darwinian bribe.

    But who wants the earth as a gift
    when it is empty as space,
    when women grow hard
    as bronze madonnas
    & Diana loves only her stag?

    When Persephone stays in hell
    the entire year,
    then how can spring
    begin?"


    --------------------------

     
    #59     Apr 15, 2023
  10. schizo

    schizo

    Don't be an idiot. Or do you think I'm an idiot? :fistbump:

    Good find. This is beautiful shit. I must say Erica Jong, along with Henry Miller, is like an indelible stain. Once you become contaminated with her works, you just can't get rid of her.
     
    #60     Apr 16, 2023