So I do believe that the Austin and at least one other were probably not sufficiently clear about the adult themes the venue's promotion. Admonish them, get agreements to do better. This current campaign to find a small group to hate is reminiscent of when politicians said anybody gay was a pedophile out of convenience.
what was old is new again: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-forgotten-history-of-the-worlds-first-trans-clinic/
I visited a big weight training web forum for years. The obsession w/trans women was mind blowing, as in pathological....forum turned into a xenophobic/alt-right/MAGA shit fest coincidentally enough.