Exactly. Takes a man of some experience to recognize these characteristics. Welcome to the club, brother Achilles!
My friend dated a series of hot girls he could never land. Usually after the forth or fifth date (and many dinners etc) they each communicated their feigned reluctant non interest. Boo HOO. People know pretty quick if there's a spark or not. Hot girls require more effort but I wouldn't pay for stuff. Better to show them u have money but never spend it on them. Otherwise it invites trouble. I'll only get married with a prenup. Call me old fashioned
all the women I fucked cost me money, usually quite a lot (I am omitting the hookers). Looking back, every one was worth thousands more than I ended up shelling out. There have been a few mistakes though: I flew one babe on an overseas trip with me - took her shopping: then back to the hotel- got her bra off and that was it! She promised me more next trip> i was so pissed i sat in a different section of the plane from her on the way back.. Wives are the most expensive- but they bring up the children , and they, boys, are the sweet icing on life's amazing cake.
I wonder if those prunups are actually worth the paper they're printed on. Too easy for the woman to claim that she was in love and wanted marriage, but she knew the guy wouldn't marry her without the prenup paperwork, so she relented. At first the marriage was good, but then blah...blah...blah. And, you know the rest of the story.
It's something like that old sign in the store... Pretty to look at...Pretty to hold...But, if you drop it, we mark it sold.
I'm not knocking any of the brethren who truly found that special one in their life. There's some of those guys who hit the jackpot, for sure. These days there's just way too much risk.